Monday, July 1, 2013

Compassion, Colleagues, and Colleges


Friends and Followers,

Life is GOOD!

This past week was all about visiting friends here in China and catching up with them (some friends I haven't seen in over a year!)

The layout of this post is as follows:

1. Interesting Story of the Week
2. Pics of the places I visited
3. Other interesting things I picked up on
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1. INTERESTING STORY OF THE WEEK:

Have you ever had that feeling where you want to go out and have fun...but the little voice inside of your head tells you to stay home? That was last Friday night for me.

Around 8:30pm, I was preparing to head out to visit my friend who was over at another university. As I walked out of my dorm, I heard the Voice say, "Don't go Sam. You can visibly see the pollution outside can't you? Skip tonight and meet with your friend tomorrow."
"Thanks Voice, but no thanks. Sure there's pollution, but there's no rain right? It already rained
earlier today so I'm pretty sure I'm good to go."
...And so assuming that it wasn't going to rain again, I left my umbrella at my dorm to dry and headed off to the bus station. I eventually found my bus and departed the station.

Here I am now, merrily on my way to my destination!

...and then it started.

Drip.
Drip.....Drip...
Drip...Drip..Drip.DripDripDripDripDrip
DOWNPOUR.

When it was my stop, I lunged off of the bus and took cover under the small dinky "roof" of the bus stop. I called my friend and asked if he could come greet me with an umbrella, but he said that it would take a significant amount of time (>30 mins).

So here I was, invariable getting more wet by the minute (due to the side winds carrying rain).

But then I saw my beacon of hope!

It was a small tea store with its doors open and a lady waving her hand welcoming me in.
I dashed inside her store, and thanked her for her cordial invitation.

“没关系,你可以等在这儿!" (No problem, you can wait here for a bit!")
Not only did she warmly beckon me in, but also she provided free tea!

Moreover, she told me I could call her (彭姐) (Lit: Peng Sister) to which I gave a warm smile in appreciation for her caring for me as if I were her little brother haha! Through our conversation  I found out that she loves to watch movies, and she recommended that I go watch 泰囧 (Lost in Thailand).
If any of you have seen it, would you recommend it as well? I plan to see it soon!

Eventually, when the rain subsided a bit, my friend showed up with a spare umbrella. I said my thanks to 彭姐, bought a tea set from her, and then headed off with my friend to his university.

I still remember 彭姐's kindness and this kindness is something that I will pay forward to other strangers and friends here in China. I'm so grateful!

LESSONS LEARNED:
1. When the unexpected happens (such as a freak thunderstorm), receive signs of mercy WITH BIG ARMS! In other words, warmly receive help when you need it and be grateful!
Even aside from thunderstorms, in other situations our own vanity and pride prevent us from asking for help. Even a small thing like a thunderstorm really reminded me of how I can't always control everything (i.e weather) and things don't go according to plan (it wasn't supposed to rain). In such cases, we must overcome our foolish pride and graciously receive help when we are in need. Furthermore, I believe we can all learn how to treat others with kindness as 彭姐 has shown! Pay it forward!
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2. PICS OF PLACES I VISITED:

Tsinghua University


Apartments right? NOPE. School dorms! 4-6 people in one room!

No Elevator = EPIC EXERCISE (6 floors)



Renmin University
With my friends Xizi and Frank (left to right)



祖冲之 (Zu Chongzhi), his estimation of π  was the most accurate one for over 900 years
李时珍(Li Shizhen) Ming botanist and pharmacologist, author of Compendium of medical herbs
College is college, no matter where you are :)
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3. OTHER INTERESTING THINGS:


Learned how to play 麻将 (Mahjong), I challenge you!
NOW THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT! YEAH!
Do you believe that I found this at a subway station?

Graffiti Beijing Style!

Who doesn't love calligraphy?
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7 comments:

  1. haha love the "college is college"...

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  2. I want an "entrance of fresh delicacies" sign pointing to my mouth

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  3. I remember last summer Beijing had an epic downpour. It was the largest rainfall in the past century, and quite a few people died. I swam back from Jishuitan Subway station to the entrance of Beishida. Keep your feet dry. Hope you have the chance to visit Yuanmingyuan.

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    1. DUDE that is an INSANE story Rahul! Sorry to hear about the deaths...can't believe
      that you SWAM from the subway station...wow.

      I'll do my best to keep afloat! Thanks for the recc. for Yuanmingyuan, I'll definitely check it out soon!

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  4. So jealous! Let's play mahjong when you get back to Yale :D

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  5. Wow, love this! I've never been to Tsinghua or Renmin University so it was nice to see those pics :D Glad to know you had the chance to learn Mahjong! hahaha

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  6. Great story, I especially like your words of appreciation for Peng jie. Unscripted, unplanned moments like those are the ones that will define your memories of China, and shape your conception of Chinese society. Keep you an open mind, and never let a minor disaster (sudden downpour) ruin your sense of adventure.

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